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Written by Airethilien
Thursday, 21 May 2009 10:30
" A Twitter conversation " chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: transgrnder are making me themselves known in society these days chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: and it's nice to be seen in a positive light everyone isn't gonna embrace us chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: but bring comfortable in your own skin I'd what matters most just living your life for who u are chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 I've found in my own experiences that people can accept u better when they feel your being yourself chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 And focusing on acceptance should be on the back burner being true to yourself is what's important TransGenderUtd@chandibtha1: Very well said. The acceptance would be one of the final stages. chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 Nope acceptance is never apart if the plan being happy is what it's all about u can never please everyone chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 my father told me one time if your ashamedvof what your doin u shouldn't be doin it that was my spark chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 once he told me that I came out of my shell and I've been being all that I can be ever since chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 just living my life becus the transfender community is out there we are not always seen in the best light chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 but that's why awareness is important cus we can't knock someone fir what there not familiar with chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 but we can show that there are many facets of tgurls and that some of us are productive in society TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd Yes! Awareness is the key here. That is why I am trying to get non-TG ppl to check out the website also! chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 every tgirl isn't out there on corners or in the intros in the moviies I don't knock anyone for makin $ chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 I just choose to get that paycheck where I can file fir taxes personally they may make more than me TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: No of course not! That is the general negative view of the mass we need to change. chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: @chandibtha1 but I sleep so good at nite and I feel safe and secure in my space at the end day we all want to be happy chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd they will cus people are curious to know what really makes a transfender tick chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd our journeys are very fascinating cus it takes a strong mind to walk in these heels TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: Yes. Ppl have to see the problems firsthand to understand. chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: Yes your rite about that action speak louder than words positive energy is needed TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: Ppl do not realize how strong, brave & alone all are who face this. Or how deep their pain is. Correct me if I'm wrong... chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: Im so comfortable with myself that I encourage my straight to ask mr anything chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: Some tgurls are so caught up in themselves that they don't have time for questions chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: @TransGenderUtd: but how else are people gonna know if they don't feel comfortable asking TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: I guess maybe both sides need to have a more posiive and relaxed comfortzone to have a dialog? chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: Your so rite some don't have a clue about our daily struggles but that's why u have to love yourself TransGenderUtdRT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: If it is okay with you can i place our convo on my website? :D chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: being a ts isn't the easiest road I could have chosen for myself but I'm comfortable in my skin chandibtha1RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: and being comfortable in who I am allows me to hold my head up high and be all I can be chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: that takes an open mind being able to embrace someone who's different takes time chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: that takes an open mind being able to embrace someone who's different takes time RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Which is how it should be for everyone. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Sure u can sweetie I hope every tgirl loves themselves as much as I love me RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Hope so too but I fear many are not allowed to :( chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: I need to go to your website and check it out cus I'm all about awareness chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: But that's the thing u have love yourself first and foremost RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Loving yourself is universal. Then you can love the other too and we all can be happy :) chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: but who u can make happy is yourself it's not a easy road u have to up for battle chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: I don't live my life with blinders on thinkin that no one knows I'm a ts chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: in my eyes I'm just being myself I don't focus on what others think chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: my goal is to blend in with all the other pretty girls in the world RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Being yourself is what works best, but also the most denied asset and therefore the most frightening chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: tgirls should never focus on how beautiful u are cus true beauty comes from within RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: You blend in fine its just the world not realizing it chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: always focus on the positives and don't feed into negative energy that's my story RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Yes never feed the negativism back. But its not so easy for all I suppose or no need for this convo. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: thank u swerie it's work cus u know we have to go the extra mile with everything chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: I don't take being passable for granted and I know all tgirls don't look like me chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: But that's where the self love comes into play cus I gotta love yourself first chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: we all have own lil insecurities whether it be skin,height or weight RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Ohh yes I got plenty of me own ^.^ Only thing that bothers me is that they are society-implemented. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: But gettin beyond all that and liking what u see when u look in the mirror matters most chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1:we are taking society out of the equation cus we are not living for society the focus is u being happy RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: That is maybe what is one of the biggest issues in relation to society. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: I could blame society fir the reason that I'm single but I won't I just havent met the rite man yet chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: society is just apart of life it won't make us or break us is all about how we deal with it RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: That is a very strong point. Though maybe victims of hatecrimes may disagree? chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: walking in these heels takes thick skin that's something a tgirl has to have but woman deal with it to RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Unfortunately yes, but my hope is that will be a thing of the past someday, in any form, for everyone chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: RT @chandibtha1: unfortunately as many barriers that we break down everyone is just not gonna embrace the movement RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: I am aware of that. But it won't stop me though. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: and I'll take being cordial over bring rude any day of the week chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: Dont u stop sweetie becus anything is possible and that time may come but for now I'll take cordial over rude RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Rudeness is not going to achieve anything, well at least not the awareness we seek. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: that's the negative energy that we like to stay away from but it's always around it's always gonna be there RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: One cant fight fire with fire so retributive action of that ground against the hate will only backfire. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd we just have to stay focused on who we are living for this one life I have I'm living for me my happiness matters most RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd Yes it does. And it pleases me much to see that you are so happy amongst the so many sad stories I hear chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: Well there comes a time where u have to stop focusing on things around u and gather your thoughts and get in good place chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: Getting into make up was a good thing for me cus it's an industry where I can be myself they love the girls chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: I'm just optimistic whenever I'm having a ruff day I don't complain cus it could always be worse I keep that in mind RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Yes that is a virtue not everyone is capable of. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: something are just never gonna go away and hate is one of those things but we can't let consume us chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: something are just never gonna go away and hate is one of those things but we can't let consume us RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Ah I find comfort in stubbornly believing one day hatred will be gone, even if I don't live to see it. chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: haters only make us stronger the haters are responsible for me having a big ego let's give them something to talk about RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: yes! that is the spirit we need! :D chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: experience is the best teacher it's how we incorporate experience into our daily lives that make us better chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: It would be besttiful to live in a world without but in the meantime life us still movin so we have to keep pushin on RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Aye and we will push on :) chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: change has arrived so hopelly we will see more but I'm not letting anything stop me from pursuing the dream chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: life is to short for me to let any of that hate or negative energy in my atmoshere I need positive energy around me RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Well is time to transform the excess negativism into positivity chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: Yes we will always keepin in mind that being true to ourselves is what matters most wevcan only do so much chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: We are work in progress And being happy should be the goal of everyday chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: cus everytime a door slammed I dusted myself off and tried again and again it's crucial to keep moving forward RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: i have never done that either with being gay but that position is so much better then most tg/ts chandibtha1 RT @TransGenderUtd: never let anyone tell u what u can't do cus we control our destiny life is what we make it RT @chandibtha1: RT @TransGenderUtd: Very much so! & w/ that thought i need to afk for a bit. Will be posting this convo on web if ok :D TY! Airethilien with Chandi Moore, May 21, 2009 @ Twitter
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